tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53451272957938120872012-02-16T01:26:09.334-08:00Where Biblical Truth and Our Stories MeetBrenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.comBlogger1401100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-81732502159233365572012-02-06T18:30:00.000-08:002012-02-07T05:44:59.684-08:00

I usually begin with, "Who lives at your house?" This begins the dialog of piecing together a child's story.  Clinically, it's called a genogram.  Common culture calls it a family tree. I call it - His Story. His story of a child's life. As a history teacher, I've always been intrigued by points in time.  At any given point in time, our view is limited by prior events and present circumstances.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-84990778456346327722012-01-22T18:09:00.000-08:002012-01-22T18:32:10.506-08:00

Do you hear what I hear? This phrase has been echoing in my mind.  A play on words from that familiar Christmas carol. But it's also found in scripture: He who has an ear, let him hear.  Matthew 11:15, Mark 4:9 He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches.  Rev 2:7 I've been challenged recently to shut out other "voices" which are not God's Word.  It's

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-52483037460078949622012-01-11T17:57:00.000-08:002012-01-11T18:50:53.072-08:00

Several people have recently mentioned they read this blog.  That's reminded me to take time out of my back-to-work-full-time schedule to write things down. I'm a teacher at heart, not a blogger or writer.  Teaching and communicating truth is one of my passions.  Lately I've had the privilege of doing it everyday as an interim elementary school counselor. But the real privilege comes in working

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-76957276446379560682011-12-26T08:39:00.000-08:002011-12-26T08:45:29.064-08:00

" He directed two of his disciples, 'Go into the city.  A man will be carrying a water jug will meet you.  Follow him.  Ask the owner of whichever house he enters, "The Teacher wants to know where is my guest room where I can eat the Passover with my disciples?"  He will show you a spacious, second-story room, swept and ready.  Prepare for us there.'  The disciples left, came to the city, found

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-55773109214379355992011-11-11T08:44:00.000-08:002011-11-11T08:48:53.582-08:00

That’s Faith. This is what a mentor said when I shared how I am expecting God to work in bold and new ways.   God hasn’t changed, but my expectations of Him are changing. “That’s faith,” she said.  Believing in what we don’t see. This thing of faith is not new.  I’m just a slow learner.  As I'm believing that God desires to work and move in extraordinary ways, I’m seeing things happen.  I wonder

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-52268293679443350312011-11-01T06:17:00.000-07:002011-11-01T06:32:37.176-07:00

Do you not know, have you not heard?Have you not heard?Has it not been told to you from the beginning? (He) sits enthroned above the circle of the earth? To whom will you compare me, or who is my equal? says the Holy One,  Do you not know, have you not heard, The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-54338034782840646352011-10-17T07:21:00.000-07:002011-10-17T07:33:08.930-07:00

Living and Active.  Right about here, a imagine breaking in to a commercial for some vitamin for the later years. Living and Active! If you spend time watching any news hour, the message all about  living active....eating for good healthmedication for active livingyes, even for sexual vitality("when the moment is right...") Living and ActiveThese powerful words are not from a pharmaceuticals

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-69742240444822011232011-10-13T05:16:00.000-07:002011-10-13T05:16:45.600-07:00

Flesh and Spirit. Two intense, spiritual terms often associate with our Savior's suffering or Christianese when speaking about doing things "in the flesh," referring to sexual sin, lust or anger.  Recently I struggled with a situation and I found mind ping-ponging between God's thoughts and my own. In the course of few hours, I could see the same situation from two different sides, flesh and

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-71725065644089317102011-10-07T16:26:00.000-07:002011-10-07T16:26:26.731-07:00

I was reading 1 Kings 6, the portion where it describe's Solomon's preparations for the Holy of Holies, where God would reside and the Ark of the Covenant. I was struck at the beauty and pristine nature of the room, perfect dimensions, and only gold everywhere - the wall, the floor, the chains....literally - everywhere. A room covered in gold, the purest metal, the most valuable item found

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-17073916840631743392011-09-30T06:10:00.000-07:002011-09-30T06:28:06.870-07:00

My time in Nehemiah is coming to an end.  Today I read Nehemiah 12, recording the celebration of the Wall completed.  As they completed the celebration, they read the law of Moses, "Is was found written there that no Amnonite or Moabite was permitted to enter the congregation of the God, because they hadn't welcomed the people of Israel........When they heard this, they excluded all the

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-10489154619928580892011-09-22T03:55:00.000-07:002011-09-22T19:45:43.117-07:00

I was cupbearer to the King. Well, I wasn't, but Nehemiah was, and this single sentence stands out to me this morning. Nehemiah 1:11 says, simply, "I was cupbearer to the King."   However, it was this position in life, on an average day, that someone of great position noticed Nehemiah's countenance and inquired what was troubling him.  The next thing you know it, he's off with documents from

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-39772728901839624842011-09-16T06:22:00.000-07:002011-09-16T09:58:52.185-07:00

" Blessed be God, the God-of-Our-Fathers, who put in the mind of the kind to beautify the Temple of God of Jerusalem!  Not only that, he caused the king and all of his advisors  and influential officials actually to like me and back me.  My God was on my side....."  Ezra 7:27-28 These small verses speak for themselves.  Do you need someone to favor you and  back you?   I don't know about you,

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-28450486243890118472011-09-06T07:04:00.000-07:002011-09-06T07:10:01.309-07:00

"And all the Israelites found a place to live.  Ezra 2:70 This statement caught my attention as I read The Message this morning. As the Israelites returned to the land of their ancestors, some of them could not identify their lineage because they couldn't find their family records. "They thoroughly searched for their family records but couldn't find them." (Ezra 2:62).  How heartbreaking.  

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-59212618281724226982011-08-31T06:14:00.000-07:002011-08-31T06:19:24.567-07:00

I love the Word of God.  I love History.  I love that the Word of God is flawless history of which we can learn things from, apply them to our lives, and learn more and more about the Author of both time and the Word. I'm beginning a journey during my quiet time in Ezra and Nehemiah.  The story of rebuilding.  Rebuilding what God designed as His home.  Rebuilding something beautiful that was

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-47512316559217853272011-08-24T09:38:00.000-07:002011-08-24T09:49:35.483-07:00

This morning I was reading Deuteronomy 27 & 28.  I've been reading several authors who have written and speak on blessings, so I spent my quiet time this morning in the scene where the tribes of Israel are shouting blessings and  curses to each other, declaring the Lord's words for living our relationship with Him. I'm reminded God is the same God who breathed words into the Israelites while

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-7987137149076543462011-08-04T19:25:00.000-07:002011-08-04T20:23:26.693-07:00

Many people ask me if it's hard to do what I.  Normally I say, "No," citing counseling others is not as emotionally draining as teaching 170 high schoolers all day.   But today, it was a heavy day. In addition to private practice, I work for an agency ministering to those affected by domestic violence.  Today was a day where the affects of trauma and abuse on individuals and children over a

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-80668895852930050972011-07-18T19:28:00.000-07:002011-07-18T19:52:51.160-07:00

I have to admit, I find myself loosing "it" these days. I've found myself assuming things as I skim information, procedures, or news items. Call it senility, busyness, or general "lack of attention to detail," either way, the falsely perceived information often leads to miscommunication, assumptions, and botched outcomes. Take a recent baking incident.  My husband, a teacher, is home more in

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-44721332871790351482011-07-12T19:05:00.000-07:002011-07-12T19:58:55.460-07:00

This past week my son and I went on a road trip to the Black Hills of South Dakota. We traveled over three thousand miles, many of which were in canyons between majestic rock formations, filled with waterfalls, and breathtaking geological formations.  We observed the bottom of these canyons were called "gulches."  In Appalachia, similar places are deemed "hollers."  Regardless of what they are

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-54489110529658408452011-06-24T15:05:00.000-07:002011-06-24T18:01:18.256-07:00

When He calls, He equips..... This is a principle I learned from Bible Study Fellowship years ago.  And it's one this special family is living out. Mike and Karen Unternahrer are a couple who have been committed to serving the Lord since their marriage began.  Having four children of their own, of whom I've had the privilege to teach and watch grow, they have been foster parents, opening

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-28475736516497607402011-06-13T05:17:00.000-07:002011-06-13T05:22:03.110-07:00

We have a wood deck, wooden clothesline pole, and an old wooden swing.  I'm ready to take a sledge hammer to all of them because of what's festering inside.  In our deck railing, swing frame, and clothesline pole, bees are making their homes.   I know this because I've observed huge, hairy bees swarming around these items, only to disappear into the most unassuming little hole. In each structure

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-58030355932944492112011-06-10T12:46:00.000-07:002011-06-12T17:12:40.717-07:00

No, I don't have The Answer.   I know may shock a few, especially my children, but I don't have The Answer. I want to be part of The Answer.   "What's the Question?" you're asking.  There is none.  The question is more of a statement: Don't be part of the problem, be part of the answer. I came across this suggestion recently by an author, and it's been changing my thinking. I confess I can easily

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-59590081815379516842011-05-27T09:18:00.000-07:002011-05-27T09:21:42.278-07:00

"Hear my voice in accordance with your love" Psalm 119:149. These words jumped out at me todayHear my voice.I spend a lot of time with hurting people who feel their voice is not heardIn relationships, in society, even to God.  Hear my voice in accordance with you love is the cry of hurting hearts.  I think back on so many times I've cried out to God,  "Don't you hear me?" Such a simple prayer,

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-16655953320868020002011-05-19T06:42:00.000-07:002011-05-19T07:08:01.812-07:00

Time.  Does anyone really know what time it is?  The lyrics to an oldie-but-goodie rushes through my mind as I think of the word Time.Feeling there's been no time to think the past several years, the subject of time has been resting in my mind.  What to do with it, how to spend it, ways to protect it.This is difficult when things demanding time yell the loudest.Kids activities, obligations, work,

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-22706850829823834552011-05-12T05:54:00.000-07:002011-05-13T13:54:37.655-07:00

Redemption. As I reflected this morning over the past several years, this word kept on coming up in praise as I looked back at His Story.  This week marks the end of my graduate work as I complete a three year Masters program in Clinical Mental Health Counseling.  Looking over the past several years, redemption shows up over and over again. Redeemed relationships. I took the exit ramp off the

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-77933095507967168452011-05-03T11:17:00.000-07:002011-05-03T12:34:45.957-07:00

This morning, as I came to prayer, scenes from the past week flashed through my mind..... A royal wedding A stately murderThe risen Lorda deadly tombhope hopelessnessComfort disconnect The contrast between these images has been accentuated by the experiences I've had - warm experiences among members of Christ's body, and encounters with people disconnected from the Church and family. "What is

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-68830552788140204322011-04-29T06:52:00.000-07:002011-04-29T07:09:21.324-07:00

As I watched the Royal Wedding this morning of Will and Kate, the pomp and circumstance, the tradition, the crowds waiting to catch a glimpse of them, the sheer grandness of the affair, my mind could not help but go to The Royal Wedding of which we get to be the Bride. And I've been in awe. We shall behold Him by Sandi Patti immediately came to mind as I sat down to honor the Groom in

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-30584361923028556732011-04-24T17:35:00.000-07:002011-04-24T17:39:58.632-07:00

When all the jugs and bowls were full, she said to one of her sons, "Another jug, please." He said, "That's it.  There are no more jugs." Then the oil stopped.  She went and told the story to the man of God.  He said, "Go sell the oil and make good on your debts.  Live, both you and your sons, on what's left."  2 Kings 4:4-7 This is the ending chapter of our widow woman and Elisha's story.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-56756524098881415342011-04-06T18:20:00.000-07:002011-04-06T20:22:52.419-07:00

"Then come home and lock the door behind you, you and your sons."  Elisha said (2 Ki 4:3-4, The Message)She did what he said.  She locked the door behind her and her sons.  (2 Ki 4:5, The Message) While the overall story of the widow and Elisha from 2 Kings 4 has impressed my spirit, (Are You Weary & Troubled post), these simple instructions tucked inside the story has challenged me immensely

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-71490364958957432982011-03-30T07:56:00.000-07:002011-03-30T08:02:34.332-07:00

"Does an ax take over from the one who swings it?  Does a saw act more important than the sawyer?" Isaiah 10:15 A Servant A servant is one who does not worry about the cares of the MasterThose matters belong to the King.  A servant needs to just serve.A servant does the most menial of tasks but also the most extraordinary ones.In the same day, it may be scrubbing floorsonly later speaking

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-20396444244767200232011-03-23T12:27:00.000-07:002011-03-23T12:33:23.654-07:00

Tucked away 2 Kings is a woman.A desperate woman.Her husband, a man of God, is dead.Alone with two children, she is desperate.Creditors are coming to take her (children), flesh and blood as slaves for payment of debt.She cries out to Elisha.Help me!How can I help?  What do you have?  The Lord's servant asks.Nothing, she says.  Only a little oil. Have you ever felt desperate like this woman?At the

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-73441592215983469322011-03-10T18:26:00.000-08:002011-03-10T18:57:56.214-08:00

Guns.   I've never really thought much about guns, other than teaching my boys not to play with pretend guns when they were little. My husband and father are not hunters.  We don't own a gun.  My husband was raised a pacifist and we presently attend a peace church.  In fact, if you break into our house, you will probably be met with a very sharp Cutco knife. Guns haven't interested me much.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-74949260245715626802011-03-09T07:28:00.000-08:002011-03-09T09:22:33.010-08:00

I Peter 3:8-15 The Message Summing it up:Be agreeable (I do that, for the most part)Be sympathetic (check)be loving (hmm....depends on who it is)be compassionate (check)be humble (not sure if I do that so well)That goes for all of you, no exceptions (are you sure?)No sharp tongued sarcasm (shoot, that's my coping mechanism) Instead, Bless.That's your job to bless (.......everybody?)You'll be a

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-6360024953027545072011-03-04T07:30:00.000-08:002011-03-04T07:30:35.110-08:00

It's that time of years for potholes in northern Indiana.  The long winter snow melts away leaving roads with huge gaps, ruts, and holes.  Gaps needing to be filled. As I was praying this morning, this image came to mind....the way the Lord fills in the gaps in our lives. gaps of need driving us to others who cannot meet those needs gaps of love driving us to unhealthy relationships or

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-85657410884766616142011-02-27T13:54:00.000-08:002011-02-27T14:23:39.169-08:00

One of my favorite secular songs is "If I Could Turn Back Time" by Cher. It could possibly be because I am a History teacher, or I just tend to look at things in perspective of time. Or it could be that things in my personal life are rapidly changing and sometimes I just want to stop the clock. I'm at the midpoint of life - 42.  My husband and I recently celebrated 27 years of dating. My

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-34889688530723301852011-02-20T11:45:00.000-08:002011-02-20T11:45:03.530-08:00

Rest. This is a word the Lord gave me last weekend after coming off several weeks of increasing, low-grade stress. Rest in me. As I was talking with a friend about the various things running through my mind, she prayed with me and I was overwhelmed with the presence of the Lord.....like water being poured over dry, parched land.  It gave the dryness a sense of relief and comfort. The following

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-31691709310907989852011-02-04T17:26:00.000-08:002011-02-04T17:40:01.301-08:00

The other day I hit the pavement after a hiatus from consistent running.  I signed up to do a 10k race this summer with a friend, so I decided I better get going..... As I started my 4 mile trek in the snow covered landscape, I thought how much easier it is to run when my husbands joins me.  Being a more competitive runner, he will run ahead of me, but somehow knowing he's out there with me

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-75434389783796068922011-01-25T07:54:00.000-08:002011-01-25T07:54:31.479-08:00

Today I had the privilege of observing a happy ending to one person's chapter in their life   It was one long chapter of pain, abuse, abandonment, distrust in others, addiction, trauma.... A few months ago, what I heard concerning this person were "throw away" words.   It's no use trying   Once an addict, always an addict   They don't deserve anything else...   etc.... In the past several

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-3303747395640837712011-01-23T12:46:00.000-08:002011-01-23T13:04:16.566-08:00

I read the book of Romans this week from The Message, a version of the Bible written in contemporary language (Peterson, E., NavPress, 2002).   Wow.   "Welcome with open arms fellow believers who don't see things the way you do.  And don't jump all over them every time they do or say something you don't agree with ......Remember they have their own history to deal with.  Treat them gently,"  

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-16317038682450195432011-01-13T09:25:00.001-08:002011-01-13T09:27:01.793-08:00

Comfort. Such a privileged part in our society...It's expected.  It's considered a right.   As Christians, we would be fooling ourselves if we said we were exempt from expecting comfort.  Comfort wraps itself around theology and vision we have as individuals and as  corporate Churches. I've been challenged recently with an uncomfortable place God has placed me.  I find myself circling the

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-91085935132955784472011-01-11T17:29:00.000-08:002011-01-11T17:29:27.418-08:00

Today I shared part of my love affair with God and His word at http://www.thewomanthang.com/2011/01/gods-greatest-principle.html I am beginning to share part of my journey overcoming an eating disorder in "Life Beyond the Picket Fence blog, and I shared this testimony today. Blessings,  Brenda

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-44315566499825201532011-01-06T14:39:00.000-08:002011-01-06T16:15:54.948-08:00

I was in conversation with someone today and they reported reading a book affirming a current experience they were struggling with was normal.  "It was so good to hear this was normal....I only wish I had known that earlier" this person said. This resonated with me.  I, too, have struggled in marriage, parenting - (life) - longing for affirmation that I wasn't a lone duck struggling with

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-31228142851907683392010-12-28T14:49:00.000-08:002010-12-28T14:52:02.886-08:00

Often I find myself at the same spot - Choice. Choice as to how I will respond to circumstances.  I used to argue with God to change the circumstances, and now it's not where He wants me to be. Do you ever wrestle with God, bargaining with him, asking Him to change something? In this life, we don't always know the why's to what seem like unanswered prayer or circumstances.  Sometimes all we

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-60412459640044596662010-12-20T04:31:00.000-08:002010-12-20T04:51:22.358-08:00

The end of each year always brings the opportunity to Look Back.... Recently I spent some time Looking Back, only it wasn't full of the annual "end of year reflection of thankfulness and priorities"..... It sent me in a foul mood, churning up bitterness, resentment, anger I thought I was over... Sending me to the Land of Would of, Should of, Could of Beens.... Luckily I was able to gain my

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-28614253726035925612010-12-15T07:46:00.000-08:002010-12-15T07:47:23.303-08:00

Take nothing for the journeyNo staffNo bagNo breadNo moneyNo extra tunic.Luke 9:3 These words jumped off the page of Luke's gospel to me this morning.In this season of stuff, preparationstraditions, presents, pomp and circumstance, here are Jesus' directions to his disciples as he was sending them out. take nothingyou are to rely on my provisionsdo what I ask you to do.minister to othersjust you

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-16687475343383829182010-12-08T04:27:00.000-08:002010-12-08T05:07:31.961-08:00

Today my youngest child turns 11.  It seems milestonish, though I'm not sure why.  Perhaps it's because I no longer have a "little kid."   All four of my children are now in double digits with a 1 in front of it.  The teen years to the 4th power.  That's milestonish. Though, I know that's not the real milestone.  The real marker is all the changes in our life over the last 11 years.  Life

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-50695084593740683162010-11-28T14:54:00.000-08:002010-11-28T14:56:47.566-08:00

Yesterday I spent some time cleaning out my closet. Getting rid of clothes that didn't fit Pulling some clothes I really have no business wearing any more Making room for fortysomething clothes that are much more comfortable. The process is spiritually beneficial, too. I had to think of things of our nature or past we hold onto, that don't fit us anymore.        Behaviors, habits, things of

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-18571744232329833302010-11-19T06:24:00.000-08:002010-11-19T06:25:10.119-08:00

If you need a morning devotional, read Psalm 20 this morning.  I began my morning with these words this and it overwhelmed me. I am so amazed that the God of the universe would hear me, let alone grant favor to requests. And in light of a saddened heart I feel for when God's name is not honored or glorified, I am all the more amazed at the awe and power of His name. He is the King of Kings.  He

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-20275723700688974702010-11-14T14:57:00.000-08:002010-11-14T15:02:02.686-08:00

                 I fear a holy God.                  God is just                                but also love.                  God is full of wrath and judgment,                                 but also grace.                  I am sinful                                 by the grace of Jesus I can have a relationship with a perfect God.                  His character does not change.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-53961443651143012202010-11-07T13:55:00.000-08:002010-11-07T14:39:27.464-08:00

I have been challenged recently by preachers, Bible teachers, and professors to take eyes off of self, individually, and corporately as a church, and focus on Christ. This should not be a new message, but it is.  Each message, however, has a similar theme... It's Him. Him. Him.We need to have confidence In Him.  We need to pray completely in Him.We need to share Him with hurting people. We need

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-55545214220770993912010-11-01T16:23:00.000-07:002010-11-01T16:30:15.155-07:00

This morning the fingertip of the middle finger of my right hand was bleeding. How did that happen?I stuck a Bandaid on it and went about my day.Then I saw there were cuts on the other side of the same finger, below the fingernail.Where did that come from?I gazed at the cuts, realizing they must have come from the pocket of the suitcase I unpacked earlier in the morning.  I reached into the

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-42508816074615291192010-10-24T10:36:00.000-07:002010-10-24T10:39:58.395-07:00

Love the Lord Your God...     With all your heart. this includes our emotions.  Do you run to God with all of your emotions?  Or just the ones that feel good.  He knows all of them already.  Do you share even the unlovely ones with Him? He loves you entirely, even when you don't feel lovely.  He loves you when you don't feel loving towards Him.   He's your daddy.  He'll take you with any

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-13646958837337630482010-10-18T19:19:00.000-07:002010-10-18T19:22:46.828-07:00

The Golden Rule... Trrreat Others zthe way you vould vant to be trrreated. And least that is what the genie-looking character sounded like on an "Integrity Counts" video I showed a class of 4th graders.  They chimed in, complete with the accent, every time "The Golden Rule" was mentioned in the script. This catchy phrase came to my mind recenlty as I was reading Mark 12, where the teachers of

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-50701173509779008862010-10-10T16:40:00.000-07:002010-10-10T17:06:42.964-07:00

Belong.             Behave.                        Believe. These words were presented to our church body today by former missionary James Krabill.  He spoke of how the Church needs to engage with culture around us rather than being separate, interacting with non-believers, mixing with those around us while drawing them to the Savior.  As churches, we should be places where non-believers feel

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-70440335614510383252010-10-04T18:35:00.000-07:002010-10-04T18:38:22.121-07:00

I recently spent time with someone who was paralyzed by fear.  What ifs? When will it end? What about so and so? And many other questions. As I searched for words of wisdom to a situation where the future could not be guaranteed, all I could offer were spiritual truths I knew were sure. Fear is not of God.  It is a tool of the enemy, gripping us and keeping our eyes off Him.  ("Perfect love

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-54227858353064679422010-09-26T13:22:00.000-07:002010-09-26T13:28:16.357-07:00

This morning's church service was meaningful.  In getting ready for communion, of which our denomination only has twice a year, our pastor challenged us to make things right with relationships that may be severed. This was refreshing.  One friend of mine came up afterwards and expressed forgiveness for something I had said over four years ago. I had no idea that it had hurt her.  She said from

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-32194254287291340662010-09-25T13:01:00.000-07:002010-09-26T11:46:52.570-07:00

Thank you, Lord, that you search me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise. You perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down, you are familiar with all my ways. Search me, O God, and know my heart, test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, And lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139, 1-4; 23-24

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-38675420783273293682010-09-17T09:05:00.000-07:002010-09-17T09:15:30.250-07:00

I just got done writing a response to an article, "Is Sunday School becoming a Thing of the Past?" in Mennonite Weekly Review.  It asked for responses, so I took the opportunity to respond via email. The article was looking at current curriculum in our denomination, and I responded that the question is not about Sunday school, because Sunday School is vital. I cited the real issue is a

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-57453709291161130512010-09-12T16:38:00.000-07:002010-09-12T17:00:29.967-07:00

I started attending a new bible study this weekend taught by my beautiful mother-in-law.  We are studying the power of the blood of Christ Jesus.   A sentence in the book we are reading impacted me. Adam and Eve lost their covering of God's glory when they sinned. Can you imagine being covered by God's glory?  Completely naked but clothed by the glory of the Lord.  Wow. The author discussed

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-91443314183547448042010-09-07T19:47:00.000-07:002010-09-07T19:50:52.914-07:00

Die to Self.        This has been playing over and over in my mind the last two days, after watching a session of "Driven for Eternity" by John Bevere.  Our Sunday School class is studying the series, and this lesson was for me. "Die to self," was the message from the lesson, as well as the Spirit. All too timely because of some things I was wrestling with the Lord about. And today, just as

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-46029364112595923132010-09-03T12:51:00.000-07:002010-09-03T12:51:51.681-07:00

He will not judge by what He sees with His eyesOr Decide by what He hears with His earsBut with righteousness he will judge the needy, With justice He will give decisions for the poor of the earth. He will strike the earth with the rod of His mouth, and with the breath of His lips He will slay the wicked. Righteousness will be his beltand faithfulness the sash around His waist.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-80249561798657670632010-08-29T18:50:00.000-07:002010-08-29T18:56:50.562-07:00

Today I left a situation grumbling and complaining. Mpfmmm...mfpmmm.....mfpfmm...... I didn't start out intending to grumble, but I quickly found myself there. A full blown pity party erupted.  I might as well have had cake, candles, and balloons. Then I went to church tonight and heard a message about water skiing. How you can either be stuck in the muck, being pulled up by a weak powered

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-61636924179556558502010-08-23T17:07:00.000-07:002010-08-23T17:07:36.814-07:00

It is not the healthy  who need a doctor, but the sick.  I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners. (Mark 2:17) I read this the other day, and the statement by Jesus wrung in my ears.   ....I have not come for the healthy or the righteous, but the sick and sinner...... It solidifies the internal struggle I have with status quo Christianity.... Those of us fearful to step out of

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-32982486132141656832010-08-19T07:12:00.000-07:002010-08-19T07:24:02.825-07:00

I have the privilege to minister to the hurting, most of whom are non-believers. Some days this is challenging, knowing the answer to their deepest needs is Christ himself. Or on days when they are overwhelmed and hopeless, and I simply want to pray with them. Recently when I left someone I'm ministering to, I came away at a loss. Lord, I said, she needs to know You, that You will provide. And

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-63266462112162911012010-08-12T03:27:00.000-07:002010-08-12T03:45:31.877-07:00

A man with leprosy came to him and begged him on his knees, "If you are willing, you can make me clean."                                                                                                              Mark 1:40 I read this verse yesterday morning before the start of the day.I couldn't get past the visual image of it, and the request this man had of Jesus. A man coming to Jesus,

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-76171877859653809612010-08-09T11:08:00.000-07:002010-08-09T11:08:34.633-07:00

In the busyness of life, I often think I have to have eloquent things to post for the blog, but today I'm sitting at McDonald's in between appointments, with my heart singing a simple thing. I love you, Lord. Sometimes the most eloquent are the most simple. I hope this finds you loving the Lord, too, today.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-54669336864269257792010-08-07T06:45:00.000-07:002010-08-07T07:05:24.931-07:00

The following is an article I was asked to write by a friend for their ministry newsletter.  It's an experience with the Lord I have shared with many in conversation.  Here's the written version. Rootbound by Brenda L. Yoder I have a plant that seemed to be growing rather tall and lush.  However, over the past several weeks the leaves were dropping like flies.  I was puzzled because, while it

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-1566876337507884352010-08-02T04:01:00.000-07:002010-08-02T04:06:45.290-07:00

Last night I had the privilege of being Rhoda of Acts 12, presenting the story of Peter and the unbelief of extraordinary events in the lives of early Christians.  In sharing this story with children, and after seeing Peter's story presented in Resurrection, Rock, Redeemer, I am reminded of the power our God displayed in the lives of early believers.... And challenged He still desires to

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-15012968319185073422010-07-25T12:41:00.000-07:002010-07-25T12:52:20.093-07:00

In my blog for women, "Beyond the Picket Fence," I run a feature on Women of Influence.  I wanted to share the story of this month's featured woman on this blog, as her story is a testimony to His Story in our lives.         One of the influential women in scripture is a woman named Naomi.  Usually we hear about her daughter-in-law, Ruth, whose story is told in the book bearing her name – a

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-52184867858364159692010-07-17T14:35:00.000-07:002010-07-17T17:06:13.581-07:00

I have the privilege of being allowed to enter people's stories.  In ministering to others, most people openly sharing their stories, not batting an eye while sharing layers of facts culminating in who they are.  It is humbling and sacred at the same time........hearing their stories unfold.  It's a place to be held dear. In working with people, I have grown beyond being shocked by people's

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-53705992206022984232010-07-12T14:35:00.000-07:002010-07-12T15:19:56.396-07:00

The Experience  Two days ago I returned home from a mission trip to El Pinon, Dominican Republic.  It is a poor small village in the southern part of the D.R.  According to native Dominicans, the southern part of the D.R. is "forgotten," not receiving much attention from the "corrupto" government, with the northern part of the island receiving finances and development for tourism.  In the area

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-15358644052731882872010-07-02T13:30:00.003-07:002010-07-02T13:30:10.471-07:00

I'm leaving on a mission trip to the Dominican Republic, so I've posted one blog for the week at www.thewomanthang.com - "What People Think?" (Is is Really the Best Question?)  It's a blog that could be posted here also, so feel free to visit my other blogsite Beyond the Picket Fence to read it. I will take up the keyboard in a couple of weeks.  I'm returning with my 16 year old son and others

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-31312713512379568712010-07-02T13:04:00.000-07:002010-07-02T13:25:48.641-07:00

In finishing up my Masters in Counseling, our summer assignment is to work on an area of personal change. When I first read the assignment, my stomach curled because I have been required to do a lot of existentialist self-reflection over the last two years, and it becomes too much at times.  However, as I thought about something I could work on, the words a friend recently said to me came to

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-75398388795884585032010-06-28T20:21:00.000-07:002010-06-28T20:21:54.882-07:00

Where do you run when you come out of a situation completely caught off guard, like something surreal is happening around you, that you might as well have been slapped in the face? This happened to me tonight.  I still am trying to process what exactly happened.  Part of me wants to play the tape over and over again in my head, but I know that is a tactic of the enemy. Part of me want to run.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-48195862936994136072010-06-18T14:12:00.000-07:002010-06-18T14:28:47.249-07:00

I was listening to scripture today driving.  Romans, chapters 1-8.  While the narrator was droning in an English accent, I was struck by the overall theme from these verses.       Grace.  Non-partiality. Anti-religion. Whosoever. Over and over from these verses I heard "Jew and Greek," inclusion of both religions, no distinction between a person being circumcised or uncircumcised.  I heard God

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-22034492831005213032010-06-11T16:55:00.000-07:002010-06-11T17:11:19.479-07:00

This past weekend my husband and daughter ran a half marathon.                               13 miles straight. I had the privilege to sit in Notre Dame football stadium watching runners from a 5k, 10k, 1/2 marathon and marathon cross the finish line for two consecutive hours, fervently looking for my love ones to enter the tunnel and cross the finish line.                      I watched people

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-59541291590532042502010-06-04T10:29:00.000-07:002010-06-04T10:43:59.945-07:00

The newest verse I am binding on my hands and forehead (per instructions in Deuteronomy) is Philippians 1:27, Whatever happens, conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel. I am a realist, a no-nonsense type of person. Just tell me straight up what you want me to do, and I'll do it.  That is why this verse has been so profound to me.  Why don't we teach this in Sunday school more?  Why

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-46123199404833961012010-06-01T06:00:00.001-07:002010-06-01T06:33:00.486-07:00

Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened  to me has really served to advance the gospel.  As a result, it has become clear to the whole palace guard and to everyone else that I am in chains for Christ."                                                                                                                                   Philippians 1:12-13 I've been committing these

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-16891567710968068372010-05-30T22:09:00.000-07:002010-05-31T07:26:20.577-07:00

The last blog post was titled "Beyond the Picket Fence: Ministry of Encouragement," and was based on a message I gave at our Mother-Daughter banquet, which was based on conversations I'm been having with women who are experiencing similar things in their lives as I have in my own:          Life events aren't always what we expect them to be, despite all our efforts as Christian women.....

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-5896414460327081292010-05-26T20:36:00.000-07:002010-05-26T20:48:46.499-07:00

A week and a half ago, I gave testimony at a local church on what God has done in our family.... The miracle He has performed despite my stubborn and prideful ways.  Only after I came to the end of myself, truly, pleading with Him to do a work in the relationship with my daughter, did I see the Lord step in, and slowly work a miracle in our relationship, and in both of us. Tonight after the 

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-38658726835119705582010-05-22T06:49:00.000-07:002010-05-22T06:50:24.900-07:00

in all my prayers for all of you I always pray with joy... being confident of this,  that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion in Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:4-6 I've been memorizing these verses when an instructor this week used these same, reminding me that all people are "in process," that God is working on others, not just me I needed to hear that.  I was

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-80302597457823191882010-05-17T19:23:00.000-07:002010-05-17T19:23:43.605-07:00

There's been little time for blogging lately, trying to finish up classes this semester, starting internship, mother-daughter banquet, and oldest's graduation is next week.  In the midst of all of it God is at work.  Not just in the big things, but in the small things, beginning with my mind.  Thanking God for people and circumstances, changing attitudes, feeling at peace. It's just what Paul

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-66080282606153570282010-05-11T06:44:00.000-07:002010-05-11T07:36:15.504-07:00

      I have to say memorizing Philippians is slowly transforming my thought life.  I wouldn't say that if it wasn't true.  The practice of going over words makes the significance of the words jump out at you, sinking into the core.         Recently, I've been memorizing Phil. 1:5-8, and I'm struck by the absolute words Paul uses - "all" and "always" - six times!  Usually, as writers, and we are

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-26815342630477666982010-05-07T07:59:00.000-07:002010-05-07T08:24:02.984-07:00

This weekend is Mother’s Day -  the day mothers get words of praise, perhaps some flowers,  a meal out on the town, or  at least, the dishes done for them.  For children, it’s the day we think of our mothers and the wonderful things they have done for us – glorified motherhood of the sorts. In pondering scriptural applications for motherhood this week, I was surprised where my musings have

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-63041189830447389532010-05-01T14:22:00.000-07:002010-05-01T14:43:08.076-07:00

I never knew so few words could be so powerful. In memorizing Philippians, I have been resting on the third verse, and applying it. Every time I remember you, I will thank God for you.                       Principle: Every thought you have about another person, thank God for them. I've been implementing this for two days now.  It's powerful. If you're like me, my mind can run many places

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-85749337888199271522010-04-27T06:37:00.000-07:002010-04-27T07:13:24.874-07:00

So, I've taken on a personal commitment/challenge to memorize the book of Philippians (my first job is to learn how to spell it). Being ready to jump in and "go to town," the Lord humbled be because I can't seem to get past verses 1 and 2.    Paul and Timothy, servants of the Christ Jesus. (stop)           I am struck as I read this introduction of Paul to his audience, he identifies himself as "

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-64295918714961294342010-04-24T10:19:00.000-07:002010-04-24T10:22:08.380-07:00

In the next few weeks, I will be going through another transition in my life story.  I would title it, Introduction to Chapter III (the subject yet uncertain). God's been speaking to me about the uncertainty, the "not quite sure what that looks like" angst I tend to go through in transitions. How do you handle transitions? Sometimes transitions are set out before us, somewhat planned and

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-89538422821288118042010-04-20T16:59:00.000-07:002010-04-20T17:01:09.571-07:00

I am thankful God is the author of our stories. I am thankful God is the author of my story. I am thankful God gives truth in His word. I am thankful His word is truth incarnate, in His son, Jesus. I am thankful that I am His child, that He formed me and gives me His identity. I am thankful He is my refiner, not anyone else. I am thankful He gives clarity to perception that others see as truth.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-18866111014688663042010-04-17T06:02:00.000-07:002010-04-17T06:56:24.271-07:00

              John Mellencamp sings a song “I Fight Authority, Authority Always Wins.”  I smile when I hear this song because it’s so true in my life - evidenced by the fact I recently got “pulled over” in front of my own house, or that I once got kicked out of McDonald’s when I brought a healthier sandwich from another restaurant in to eat (I did pay for my kid’s meals!)….           A theme

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-48750501144136648462010-04-12T08:10:00.000-07:002010-04-12T08:39:06.369-07:00

This past week on vacation, in the middle of resting, I received word about something that had The Lord written all over it.  In my vacation world, isolated from the stresses of life, The Lord reminded me He is constantly working and moving whether we are involved in His plan or not.                                 Wow            What a great reminder, that while I was resting, He was not.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-58303678569815038002010-04-02T09:29:00.000-07:002010-04-02T09:29:07.538-07:00

I'll be in California for a week with our family, our last family vacation with all of my children home.  I will probably not post while we are gone - so my blessing to each of you, in His love - this Easter season.  May you know the fullness of our Lord and His Spirit.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-10768666792555992362010-03-30T06:41:00.000-07:002010-03-30T06:53:10.573-07:00

I'm revisiting Isaiah after reading the sad account of Israel's history, ending in ruins, while waiting to read the sequel where our Savior bursts on the scene. (Note: If you think the Old Testament is boring, think again!  Read it through the eyes of being His Story, and it takes on a new light!). I was ready for Isaiah 6, the familiar scene with the Lord touching Isaiah's lips with coals and

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-72802186406453334322010-03-29T10:02:00.000-07:002010-03-29T10:36:23.276-07:00

"Is Your love enough?" I asked this of the Lord this morning, or He asked it of me ("Is my love enough?) after reading John 14: 14-31.  I came to this passage this morning after a mini-meltdown last night, needing to hear words from the Holy Spirit. After reading about Him living in me, choosing to make His home there, teaching me all things (v. 26), I had to honestly ask Him, "Lord, is your

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-30883111317519237202010-03-25T16:14:00.000-07:002010-03-25T16:15:17.329-07:00

The LambI often wondered why lambs are used in scripture so much.And then we got sheepSheep can be pretty dumb, that’s another story.But today, I had to think about little lambs. We had a lamb that was weak and needed to be bottle fed.Feed my lambJohn 21: 15 She seemed dead, until I touched her, then her body moved and her eyes openedI put the bottle to her mouth but she didn’t open it.  I had to

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-45593189451202072272010-03-20T18:38:00.000-07:002010-03-20T18:38:27.729-07:00

I was traveling on a late afternoon in winter, One of those days where the hint of spring is thereBut the desolation of winter is still lingers….the stark, brown and gray colors everywhereFields left empty with remnants of cornstalks Bare trees towering against the sky, dormant of lifeFencerows of brush left from summer, looking un-kept and messyRemnants from a vibrant season filled with life,

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-41891559413593616432010-03-16T07:11:00.000-07:002010-03-16T07:23:45.568-07:00

A short post this morning, but this is the thought I had on my mind when I woke up this morning (the sunshine helped, too).        How Good is God?         From reading His Story with the Israelites, His chosen people, I stand amazed that He always comes back and loves them and provides for them. I've been reading His love story with them from 1 Kings through Nehemiah, and I want to read it

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-35891334725983930162010-03-15T10:45:00.000-07:002010-03-15T10:45:22.916-07:00

Just a note for connecting what I have been writing here, "Transparency" in particular, and what the Lord has been revealing to me about His Story, the woman's version of my journey.  Visit it at www.thewomanthang.com.

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-31556118486307870592010-03-12T07:42:00.000-08:002010-03-12T08:01:36.486-08:00

There is this saying, "When God closes a door, He opens a window."  That is a true, accurate statement.  I’ve also heard the statement "When God says “no”, He has a better plan for you."      To be honest, I don’t like cliches. Trite, quip answers don’t fit the bill for not-so-trite circumstances. The open/close door policy of God’s plan for our lives could be one of those trite phrases.  

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-52348369060205261082010-03-08T06:59:00.000-08:002010-03-08T07:11:31.793-08:00

Transparency, free falling, and holding fast.  These are things the Lord has been teaching me recently.  I wish I could say, "Look what the Lord has done!" more than I can, but the fact is I keep in getting in the way.                                      Why do I do that? Just last week, after I had revelation from the Lord as to how to be transparent in the difficult places, a comment from

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-124469832801389192010-03-01T08:45:00.000-08:002010-03-01T09:18:59.556-08:00

     I recently read a blogpost by Andrea Mitchell (www.undergraceovercoffee.com) about being transparent.  It struck me with such force, because I had also read my beautiful friend Linj's testimony in her blog (http://mla-crownofglory.blogspot.com/2009/03/measure-of-life.html), and both of them were stirring in the back of my mind.  I have also been reading "Forgotten God" by Francis Chan, and

Brenda Lazzaro Yoder,noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345127295793812087.post-16421096112258177912010-02-26T18:38:00.000-08:002010-02-26T18:43:37.304-08:00

In all your ways acknowledge Him, and he will make your paths straight.  Proverbs 3:6 We have this verse displayed on one of our living room walls, and it caught my attention this afternoon as I walked by it. Acknowledge Him, He ….makes….paths…..straight. Each word became significant to me in a split second moment. It summed up a message I was trying to convey to a friend a few hours earlier,

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